Every guys worst nightmare .. When the hottest or coolest girl you've ever talked to labels you her 'brother' .. Crushing your hopes and dreams of ever being and/or screwing her
Ever wondered why and how you got from point a (Almost getting it) to point b (brother)?
Well let me explain it as best as I could .. Or more so how I see it (Disclaimer: this is based off of how I do it and/or have seen, every female is different)
Well to start it off there's always 2 different type of guys a female meets .. The 1 who talks to her purely off the fact that he wants to get with her .. And the 1 who starts off as a friend ..
The ones who start off purely off the fact of getting with her are safe ... That is *dramatic music*.. Until they start to get too comfortable rather then giving the chase .. .. See that's where you mess up .. We like to be chased .. And the moment you slow down and/or stop .. thats when you start to go from potential to "Brother"
and then there's the started of as friends guy .. every female has guy friends .. no matter what any guy thinks or doesn't want to believe .. WE ALL HAVE MALE FRIENDS .. half who we have no intentions of EVER having any relations with .. but yes .. the trick with the 'started of as friends' guy is stupid and unnecessary but us females still use it (well at least i do) .. if we just met you .. and already your trying to talk to us .. we'll look at you as desperate .. BUT if we've been friends for a while and then you want to talk to us .. if we're close it will be weird .. bc .. you know us ON ANOTHER LEVEL .. just like a brother/sister/best friend would .. and this is where the contradiction comes in .. SOMETIMES the relationship there might work .. and SOMETIMES it wont .. and some females are risky and willing to take the chance while others are perfectly fine with where you guys are ATM. so i guess moral of this section is .. to just know when the right time is .. not to quick but not too long ..
as ridiculous as this post might that sound to some people .. its true ..
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